Great, thanks LRT and Puppy. I will be using that line. I am going to let her have to ask me again though first. She is meeting with the lawyer today, so it might not be that long.

She is still emailing multiple times a day, and I am trying to let them go. Today was again about the lawn mower. Wanted to let me know that she got it fixed. Replaced the spark plug that I recommended.

And then about my health care insurance. With me going overseas for the year, my company MADE me switch to an international coverage insurance. It still pisses me off. My plan in the States was much better, and covered way more. Yes, it was more expensive, but still. I was just upset that my only options were NO coverage or the international plan with only covers 85% of just about everything.

In any case she had questions about that because her prescriptions cost a little more. I outlined what the changes were to her once already, but I guess she deserves them again. I am going to wait though.

I am starting to see why so many people have so many questions about detachment. I have read ALOT of sitches on this site, and am realizing that I am approaching the phase where people begin to question if they care which way their current sitch goes. I looked at the last family picture we took together before I left last night, and for the first time didn't cry. It wasn't anger either, it was more of disbelief. Not denial, it's hard to explain.

I guess what I am saying is, I am slowly realizing that there is only so much that I can do. You guys have been great, and I will keep you up to date on what she brings back from her consult. Take care....

D&C


Me:33
W: 31
M: 8
T: 13
S: 6
D: 8 months
The Bomb 7/22/10 "I can't do this anymore, I'm done"
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