Hey, Steady. Well, I'm gonna have to watch you more closely as my sitch will very likely follow yours.
Once W gets told in mediation that my proposal (all legally entitled) is that rather than clearing the debts and splitting the home assets, I take the top 94K and the remaining debts are split, I'm guessing reconciliation and her "friends act" will disappear.
So instead of being about 30K black, she'll "get the D she wants" plus 24K in the red.
I'm also thinking OM (who took 16K in debt out of guilt) is gonna see Sugar Momma" in a whole new light. A single mom, 6 years his senior AND a debt will take the shine off.
ANd I'm sure she'll try all sorts of crap and lies to make my position look weak. She'll attack on custody. "Mom's are best" But there are WALLS of books showung that, for D's under 8, the absence of the FATHER is a greater disadvantage. PLus, I have ton's of witnesses to my parenting skills and stability.
But we're likely gonna have to go through the entire exercise in futility.
Wost thing she could attempt is to try to engage lawyers to eat my momey. the old "If I can't have it you can't either"
Ooh. Fun times ahead.
The irony is that the stuff posted on my thread in the last few days has really changed my attitude.
The thing about "Love without Expectation/Remove your needs from the Equation" actually required I sit for a minute. I'm officially FEELING like I'm getting somewhere now.
