My wife and I have been legally separated for four months, she lives with her parents and I bought her out of the house. We have been battling for a year over finances. I said I wanted to work on M but she was unwilling.
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The first post I wrote one year ago: I noticed new sexy undies my wife had purchased after she said "I love you but I am not in love with you" (not sure sex is involved but through FB discovered new man).
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Many have told me before a wife leaves and becomes the WAW more than likely she has someone else lined up or is involved emotionally. This looks like the case now with her co worker.
Wife had taken my girls 8 and 5 to her parents cabin for three days, on the third day I picked them up and took them to my patents cabin for three days. I asked the girls who was there, they said my wife's brothers and Aunts and uncle were there for the three days and the girls said " moms friend she works with (male) and his two children. I nearly threw up. I laterally had to pull over on the side of the road and gained my composite. It was not as if she asked him as a friend to come for the day..... but stay for three days. Once I picked the girls up she went back to her parents cabin and stayed for three more days with the OM and his two children.
I did not want to keep asking the girls questions, it killed me. She must have been having a relationship with her co worker for a long time for her to invite him of such an extended period. I told my parents and they said now wonder she was unwilling to go to counseling.
I think she may have known this guy for many years thru work and perhaps dated before I came into the picture.
Never mind I have not slept for days... We are not divorced, separated only four months and she is introducing this guy his children to her hole family. My wife must know my girls will be telling me about him.
What do I do please help
1) Confront her and say I have known for a long time there was someone else?? 2) Not say anything. My two sister in-laws said " what she douse is non of our business but to be introducing my girls to this guy is way to soon"
I was that stupid to think she wanted space to figure things out. Most say once they ask for space a relationship has started elesware. I have no idea how to handle this. The girls said my wife her friend and the four kids would go to the beach each day. I must have played that sinario over in my heard a million times.
