I am almost at the point of telling H that I am thru, want a SA, etc.. I have decided to get thru the holidays first.
My ? is: If H wants to come home, it would seem to me that I should make it more difficult. Not be so available, let him realize what he is missing and fight to get me back.
Do you think it is a good idea to welcome him with open arms or a bad idea? H said he would come home by xmas. We have not talked about that since he said it one month ago. I will not bring it up and he might not either. nik
