You know, it is still gracious of us to admit our fault in the marriage but I am pleased to see that you are fully aware that there is no correlation between what you "did" and his affair! I finally understood that a few months ago...slow learner, I am!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004