Ok, Awest, you got step 1 and 2 down...but, DO NOT LET YOUR GUARD DOWN with your H. I mean watch what you say and do, document, etc. My stbxh has been civil and generous, but until the D is final, I STILL am not turning my back, so to speak.

If these people are capable of lying and cheating on us, who knows what else, you know?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004