Exposed finally,,limbo land

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Weekend was definitely different. Friday night D14 was at camp, and D8 she sent to spend night away also, so I knew she would be with him. They were in our city not his because it was her turn with DD’s. I noticed his car leave her town home, figured they were going to go out, but then she TM me about needing to pick up D8, so I told her I would do it and have her stay with me(will help with custody stuff). She insisted she would, and I thought she was with OM, so I called her o stop her from having D8 meet OM. Low and behold, she was at home doing dishes, OM left for night?(first Friday that has happened in 6 weeks.) She was very nice on phone, and kept me on for 20 minutes(20x longer than normal). MIL guessed it was his week with his son, and left to do stuff with him.

Saturday, I made no contact with W until off work about 7 to see how D8 was etc. She invited me up for food? Contrary to her.”I don’t want you up at town home EVER”, statement from 10 days ago, was also very nice again? I made an exit earlier than she thought I would, to not look desperate for company. But before I left she said she was going to church the same time she thought I was, I had to go to early service to get to work on time.

Thinking this is all part of the roller-coaster thing unfortunately, she is most likely being nice because I’m not fighting the D. Oh well, I’m GAL’ing for me anyways, so who cares. Still feels weird though.

I’m going to go through the pains to marriage/ask for forgiveness thing as IC said to tonight. I will let you know how it goes. She also stated she does not want to go BK, so we are going to look into foreclosure stuff next.

Have a good night all.