I had most of them built.

I had my little affordable house.
My "toy" car and a garage to put it in
A decent job that I didn't mind doing.
I had time for my family and friends
Played hockey all winter
Pilot's Licence
I had a studio in the basement for my drums.

And I'd all but 'written off' the idea of a wife and kids.

8 months after my 40th B'day, there she was....

So "seeing the target" is pretty easy. I am aiming to get back to "there"

Just going to be smarter and stronger....and far more self-aware.

All I was missing was THE Lotto ticket and I was there