W came home from work, and asked me if my responses to her emails are me? or am I getting help with them. Sh stated she has noticed a positive change in me and was curious as to the way I respond to emails and in person. I simply said this is one of the issues I am working on. I now act instead of react, think before I respond. I did not lie, I told her I have confided in people to help me with my issues, I did not mention this website only that I have bounced stuff off of people. Her reaction was positive in the fact she did not go ff as to its no one elses business.
She brought up the alcoholic issue again, which I told her I am not one. I told her we will always have a difference of opinion to what an "alcoholic" is. She says an alcoholic is someone who abuses alcohol. So I said, so if you go out to a bar, get drunk"abuse the alcohol" you are an alcoholic? she couldnt respond.
She borrowed my zip drive to pull some pics off of one of our PC's and I told her there were some pics of her on there"she did some sexy photos last year for my bday" anyway I told her they were on there. She smiled and said you better not have shown anyone, I laughed and said they are my pics no one elses.
So again she brought up a conversation I engaged in it, was honest looked her in the eyes as we spoke and it did not turn into an argument. We are going to watch copout together and go to our separate beds.
But I will chalk this one up as another good day. Had a good time with the kids after working all day, made them laugh and stuff in front of the W.'
I feel the W is sticking around and noticing positive things in me and as long as I stick to the tools we will see what happens.
Anyone heard of Love Dare? I ask cuz someone from our church mentioned it to me.
