I live in NY and an affair has LOTS to do with support if you play things the right way!
It's a crime in NY and no criminal wants a trial if they can avoid it. Works out just fine
My H underestimated me in EVERY sense of the word. Big boy games, big boy consequences. And if the cheater thinks they won't have to reimburse their spouse for squandered funds on an affair while married, well, NY doesn't like that either.
I know adultery is a crime. And I thought in order to prove adultery you just about had to have a picture/video of the two people engaged in sex.
Although I imagine some WAS and their OP are dumb enough to actually refer to it in email or text messaging.
I'd be interested to know a little more detail Citygirl. Not specifically your sitch, but how much 'affair' proof do you actually need in order to get court action?
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