CTH - you really are still thinking mostly about STBXW. Most of your posts are about her. You really need to work on that. I understand you will think about her, but it seems from the posts that you think about her a lot. Try to though stop or something to help you to not focus on her, but to focus on you. Think about you and your life, not about her and what she did or is doing.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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