Right now most people Love their spouse because of what that spouse does for "US" in return.
Originally Posted By: Truegritter
Remember this.... it is key. Most people are not up for the "worse" in "for better or for worse." Most people don't have the stomach for it. And, most people (I include your W in this group) don't expect it either.
I am on the path. I've been having a chat with a freind of mine. We've been discussing the "mundane" art of communication and "listening" with our spouses/women. I'm already feeling a bit natural with the art of clarifying/finding the question in the statement/validating the feeling "behind" the statement/question. It was an interesting afternoon.
I really appreciated the bolded piece in your last post. It was an interesting addition to Pup's piece on "Shining the Light" and "Trust me, They are Watching"
