I'm in the exact same sitch BD, but I'm 6 months pg. I think you have more hope than my current sitch. Don't give up! Just back off.

Me on the other hand, too much has happened that cannot be repaired. You still have a chance.

M:28 H:30
DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10
T-14 | M-8

10/08- Bomb
4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program
3/10- WH moved out.
7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug