Trusting, time to start dating? Or at least entertaining it?

Your ex's actions still seem to bother you a great deal. You seem to be very attached to whatever he is doing w/OW. Perhaps it is time to figure that the kids already see it for what it is and let their crazy-go-round spin by itself.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D