How To Tell The Kids

[Ready2Change]

Hi Dan,

First, it is healthy to cry, just not in front of W.....Emotional release is very good for you.....Stuffed emotions need to come out.


Second, It always comes down to money. The lawyer want it, your X wants it. Understand how the lawyers can play you and wife against each other to get more money from you......

Lastly, I hope you are enjoying your kids and your new found freedom....and new friends....

I wish you well during this difficult time of your life. I would not agree to the 50/50 split. I would negotiate other payment arrangements and have the mindset "Only if a judge orders me to....."

Stay strong, do work