The only thing worse than being sick is being sick and having to take care of a sick child. Being sick and taking care of a well child ranks second.

He's clueless. He's self-absorbed. He needs to be sent before a firing squad for all that he's done to you.

Since that isn't likely to happen, the others are right - you need to get a schedule together and make him stick to it.

Having to "check" with WH every time you want to leave the country with the child you spend 99.9% raising? TOTALLY SUCKS!