Went to be with a migraine, woke up with a migraine. Ugh. Or tension headache, or all of the above. Kids crawled into bed with me and I could not get in a comfortable position, woke up at 4 am and got an ice pack, I had tried one in the evening but it hadn't relieved my pain. Once again feels like a stick in my eye, my eye itself feels like it is pulsating/throbbing along with the rest of my head on that side...
So anyway MIL came and got kids around noon to go swimming and they are spending the night. It is Dan's night and he is in Canada again (allegedly) so kids are staying over with MIL/SIL/cousins.
I immediately crashed on the couch from 12:30 to almost 4:00. Got a Text from mom that one of my aunts who is the spokesperson for John, however you call that legally she makes the decisions, she signed the DNR order for my uncle so no large measures will be taken.
Kind of contrary because John is terrified of dying and I think he wanted all measures taken to keep him alive. But Judy decided he had been in pain and struggled long enough I guess. I mean all of the family agrees and I do too, that he has reached the end of the battle so it isn't really necessary to keep fighting a losing battle. However if his wish was to keep fighting, I don't know, do you honor the wish or not??
Not my decision and I am glad it isn't. So, either way looks like his time is running out.
