I think what she is getting at is that it is perfectly fine to say something like: " Gabe, I have been enjoying our time together. I appreciate your helping too. I would like us to rebuild a better relationship together but I want to be clear, I can't have us dating other people. If we are to have a chance it is just us." Then leave it up to him say something or not. He may not say anything right away and you need to be okay with that. For some reason men like to "simmer" their thoughts for a bit.

Hope that helps.

kat


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