She said that three things attracted me to her: I was smart, I was kind, and I gave her lots of attention.
How did you do all of that while you were dating and give her space?
Do you understand what the space allows?
She wants to date because she wants the "feeling" back.
How you going to give it to her?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.