If you pressure a low-drive woman for sex, she will see it as "pressure."
If you DON'T pressure a low-drive woman for sex, she will breathe a sigh of relief that you've backed off, and gladly take the "space" that you give her.
At least, that's been my overwhelming experience and observation.
My W is a low-drive woman for sure. Even when we at the best in our M, she said she felt "pressure" for sex even though we were doing great in the R & M. Yet, she did it because she loved me and was attracted to me, and knew that was the way I recieved love.
Now, I'm don't know about you pinhead, but I feel like I'll never have sex with her for a loooooooong time. And much less - SHE will have to initiate it if we ever do! All the while I'm blowing up inside to jump her. She's more attractive to me now than ever.
Prepare yourself for baby steps. That massage was definitely more than just a baby step.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
