I live in NY and an affair has LOTS to do with support if you play things the right way!
It's a crime in NY and no criminal wants a trial if they can avoid it. Works out just fine
My H underestimated me in EVERY sense of the word. Big boy games, big boy consequences. And if the cheater thinks they won't have to reimburse their spouse for squandered funds on an affair while married, well, NY doesn't like that either.
