I did as you suggested. I reposted the Facebook message. This time, I made a profile for me and my kids, and posted on his Wall- a similar post to the one I'd deleted.
I also called the police non-emergency line and made a report. The police officer came over and we had a chat- he was very nice.
While the police officer was here, Mr. RT called. I think he and the OW had been driving by the house. He wanted to know why the police were here. The officer talked to him and told him that he needed to call before coming here, needed to be civil, and needed to give us time before making us move out. He took down the OW's address and might be going over there to talk to Mr. RT-not sure.
It's a holiday here today, but tomorrow I'm going to go to his work and talk to a superior about the situation.
I'm going to use this thread as my record. I'll save the posts to refer back to when court time comes.
I'm 99% sure it's going to end in divorce now, but I no longer care about keeping Mr. RT around anyway.
Me-29 H- 28 Together for 6.5 years 2 kids, ages 9 and 5 D-Day: July 15, 2010.
