This is just my own admittedly-biased two cents here, but based on over six years' study of mismatched-libidos/SSM couples, while the whole "He Who Cares the Least ... Wins" thing works in almost EVERY other dynamic, it does NOT work with low-drive women and sexual issues.
If you pressure a low-drive woman for sex, she will see it as "pressure."
If you DON'T pressure a low-drive woman for sex, she will breathe a sigh of relief that you've backed off, and gladly take the "space" that you give her.
At least, that's been my overwhelming experience and observation.
