cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[soleil]

What do you mean by "waive being notified?" I am confused by that.

I was very, very upset to get the filing. I remember reading it and seeing something along the lines "all efforts at reconciliation have failed" and thinking there were no efforts at reconciliation.

That's the beauty of it. A relationship over so many years boils down to a bunch of words on a few pieces of paper.