I am interested in hearing QS' confirmation here, but I suspect if you get the cops involved your H's military career again goes into serious question. His public profile is very important and so he's quite vulnerable there...
Facebook.. We can work on a post to put up again... But I strongly reccomend you get into contact with the appropriate people that QS suggested earlier... That in my opinion is the best route to take... Report him to his military superiors and wall him off... He will be outraged, but he will have to end things with OW or pursue divorce... I can't see him seriously jeapoardizing his career for a subway clerk.
