cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[ClingingToHope]

Mine was a little different. I got the filing in the mail. My L sent a letter waiving the notice.

I was very, very upset to get the filing. I remember reading it and seeing something along the lines "all efforts at reconciliation have failed" and thinking there were no efforts at reconciliation.

I called STBXW on the phone and got very angry. I regretted it later and even apologized in an email for swearing. I have not gotten angry with her again. We just avoid each other.

I'd tell him so he can waive being notified.