or is she/he standing solid on both feet with confidence? i want to drop the rope and be standing solid.
When you can say to him:
It hurt me when you called me a "gold digger."
I didn't feel like a priority in your life when you answered your parents call while we were ML.
Can you understand why I would feel that way?
I know I hurt you when I did _____________________. For that I am sorry. I can understand how you would have felt____________ when I did that.
Obviously use your own thoughts but I think you need to be able to articulate the most pressing issues without getting emotional in a negative way. This means you have no expectations for the outcome but you want to apologise for your behavior and let him know (in a loving way) that he has some responsiblity in this as well (truth darts). That to me is part of dropping the rope.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
