Another story of a WH and an LBS

[newmama]

About not being angry--I didn't get angry until after my stbxh said he was going to file in March and it got worse and worse from there (but I didn't explode at him because
1) I don't think it will help S
2) I want the legal stuff to be settled so my outbursts won't affect the divorce
3)It wouldn't be satisfying because I would be the only one yelling and he would just say "you're right. I'm sorry I hurt you." GRRRR! I want him to feel what I am feeling but that is not possible)

But I have a feeling that when I return to work and see my S a hell of a lot less then I will be getting very angry again!

This last month it has really finally hit me--everything horrible that he has done--

Sorry to t/j. Just sharing that I understand not getting angry, thinking it was weird (but I have an alcoholic mother, so children of alcoholics tend to not be good at sharing emotions)

Gatbsy-- your anger may come. But remember, that anger is depression turned outward or something, so maybe you will just be sad and cry instead! It will come one day!