cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[mishka422]

You will be just fine sweetie. After a few minutes talking to your L you should start to calm down. If they are a good D atty they should be able to make you feel at ease.

Curious. Why do you want to let him know he's being served? Should he have that sort of warning? Can you trust him to not empty whatever bank accounts he may still have access to? I haven't been following your sitch for long so I am not aware how he is with that.