you can either be sad that the decoratings not getting done. let go of it, do some of it yourself without saying anything to cj about it.
I know that if I didn't decorate there would be no decorating at all. I did however let h know that I was trying to figure out how to hang up the lights outside (just bought them so this is the first year for them)..wasn't asking for help but he did say we could do it saturday...now if saturday comes and goes without his help on the lights..I'll just have to come up with somethin myself or get over it.