My long, long tale of woe and foolishness

[RoughTime]

Mr. RT just showed up at the house. The door was locked and he started banging aggressively.

I asked him (through the door) why he was here. He says "I want to see my kids! Let me in my house!" Said I'd let him in if he was ready to be respectful, but that was a mistake.

He bolts for the computer- "Show me my Facebook page! It's mine! This computer is mine! I'm taking it!" I told him calmly that he was not to remove marital property from the house. He started unplugging the computer, I started looking for the phone. He found the phone first and tried to take computer/phone. Told him that I would be forced to call police if he didn't stop. He put them down.

He started badmouthing me to the kids, loudly. They were clearly stressed, and he didn't care.

He obviously had no interest in seeing the kids. I told him he was welcome to visit as long as he was able to be cordial, but he left in a huff. My poor 5-year-old loves her daddy- she was left sobbing and screaming as he left, calling for him to come back.

This is really heart-wrenching. I am proud that I remained calm and spoke softly.

I'm seriously considering looking into getting a peace bond against him. This is insane. The kids and I haven't done anything to him.