The problem is the same one most waywards have... they think the world revolves around them : any move you make, any thing you say or do they will put into context of their choices... You can see even LBS' start doing this early on as well. They agonize over every action they make and analyze every action their WS takes in order to find a connection.
No one is 100% of someone else's life... Its a ridiculous and unhealthy activity.
I can't imagine anything you do right now is going to convince her that you are over her... Even if you pushed for divorce right now she would suspect its a ploy of some sort and think you still are "in love" with her...
Right now she is convincing herself that every man wants her... and chats them up to validate... In this context you aren't any different from the other men she's talking to. She is so damn insecure every man she talks to has to be in love with her including you...
What you could do that may throw a surprise on her is to move her stuff out ahead of her... Which is something i suggested earlier.
Be in a HURRY to get her things out of the house.. That still supports you moving in your own good time while showing her you don't want her around.
Ya know, you playing hard to get just might be the ace in teh hole here.. SHe's thoroughly convinced herself she's a prize and has you whipped...
You taking actions to show you don't WANT her around may just throw a curve ball at her she's not ready to handle...
