I do NOT advocate just SHUTTING IT DOWN, however, as a spouse in full wayward mode is a volatile cocktail indeed. I'd rather see you check it less frequently, or another option is to ask a trusted and discreet friend to monitor the raw intel FOR you, and only inform you of immediate threads and give you summary reports.
Other than the GPS, and chats with OM Wm I don't "have" much intel gathering in place. That is why I suggested installing EBlaster now while I'm still in "Phase I"
And look at it every week or so.
Recommendation? I know it is an affair so proving that is done. All I'd learn is the status or the A; plans to move/shack up; living conditions of D (HUGE); and anything "she/they" be planning legally. But I don't know if she'd do that from her laptop. However, it would be nice to know her Yahoo PWord to watch it, just in case. However, she often uses her Berry email (as well as the Berry Msngr) which I have NO ACCESS to.
I can't decide if the distraction is worth the potential though limited intel.
