I have not read your whole thread, YET, but this last entry is an exact carbon copy of what I am going through. Except, at least you have her in counciling. My W said she would only go so it would not hurt my feelings. Not sure exactly what that meant but I knew she was not going to try so I saved my money. Although her need to be "free" and "happy" is the same as yours. I will try to go back and read the rest of your thread and maybe learn somethnig and maybe be able to help a little.
