CTH, that co-dependency class sounds like a good plan! That list is totally me too. I bet most of us LBS have common patterns and most WAS have their's.
Hang in there buddy!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again