I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

Red, yummmm! I think I could probably manage to cook one fancy meal every couple weeks...maybe borrow your idea of world travels...in fact, that could be something I share with my students! They always want to know about us and I could look up some various info/facts about each country/region for my cooking. Wow, I could even find some store bought goodies to share...see? we learn so much from each other on this forum!

Yeah, I am STILL FULL from last night.

Lotus, you make a very good point...I will need to remember that for the next guy I am GAGA for. Sorry, folks, but there are rules to initially dating. I read some interesting guidelines about dating that I never heard of (by Susan Elliott...can't find the source!):

first date--(duh) no kissing, casual light discussion, no talk about your ex

DO NOT CALL ON THE PHONE OR COMMUNICATE MUCH BEFORE SECOND DATE, WAIT FOR A WEEK BEFORE SEEING HIM AGAIN, DATE OTHERS

second date--kissing is ok, some more personal discussion, save deep stuff for later

A PHONE CALL BEFORE 3RD DATE IS OKAY, STILL WAIT A WEEK

third date--kissing+, deeper stuff is ok to discuss

DECIDE IF YOU WANT TO BE EXCLUSIVE WITH THIS PERSON; if you want to sleep with them at some point

PHONE CALLS ARE OK

fourth date: anything physical goes, etc.

Now I am not saying I agree with this but found it interesting that she was saying not to go on more than one date per week w/ someone for the first couple dates, and not to talk to them much in between dates...AND sex on the 4th date is ok? lol!