Yes, there is a support group for them and MC has suggested I attend. They only have a couple of meetings per week in our area. I have been busy with my own counseling which is a group session and that will be ending in a couple of weeks. I am thinking I might start going once D is settled into college.

I forgot to answer your other question in my reply. I looked for work last fall and got no replies or only rejects. I wouldn't hire anyone that hadn't worked in 20 yrs and didn't have a degree, either! So I went back to school at the beginning of this year. I hope to be done by this time next year and with a job.

He has said that at some point he wants me to meet the sponsor. I probably will not be allowed to talk to him privately though.

thanks!
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