feelings as OW seems to be on way out

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Trusting, Well, I think LBSers have to avoid the whole victim mentality, so I can't say that that is quite how I feel.

In a way, it might be good for LBSers to see that what the WAS "did to them" is GOOD because it broke a seriously codependent pattern. We can't run off rescuing others; this is not healthy.

I can't help that I have twinges of feelings there but I am hoping that I can move on to be healthier.

I hope that what X gets out of this is some maturity and ability to take care of himself financially and otherwise. I was, unfortunately, someone who rescued him.