You "didn't know she was suffering so much...?" How would you feel if your W cheated on you multiple times? Would you have trouble trusting her again?

What did you do to show remorse? What have you done to try to make it up to her? Have you ever asked her what she needs from you to heal?

And why was she the only one to go to therapy? Was she made to feel as though your cheating was her fault?

Why in the world would you cheat on her in the first place?