Another sad story

[LRT Land]

A month ago I couldn't imagine being intimate with my H. We were beyond disconnected. It was uncomfortable being in the same room.

Sometimes, a H and W need a big dose of reality, like a potential D, to bring the M back into focus so they can decide what they really do want.

Also, I think the most important lesson I learned here was to be the person I want to be - the person I truly am. You don't want to be someone you are not. It's important to know if your spouse wants to be with YOU. I hadn't been myself in a long time.