Hi silverado. Thanks for responding. Sorry for the delay, there was hovering most of the weekend and I was unable to check in.
As far as D, no I have done nothing. Mainly because when all of the affair stuff came out a year ago I was prepared to work on the marriage. I have never considered D the answer. But in light of my very raw and recent discoveries that were left out of all the confessing that went on, I am just beginning to look in that direction. So, I am perhaps going to start checking into that. I know things are about to get waaaayyyy worse.
Originally Posted By: silverado
your story is familiar to me...
LOL! guess I wasn't "sketchy" enough with my details!
Puppy and Allen and Quicksilver all have given some great advice already. And I have read a lot of the advice from them on others' threads. I just don't know if there is help for my sitch at this point, because I really don't even now how to broach the subject to begin with. And am still unsure of what I want to do. I just know I can't live with someone who lies to me. I go to counseling later this week. Hopefully I will get some enlightening there.
Thanks for responding and for the hugs. I really do appreciate it!
