BND, I'm glad you and your family have moved and have been afforded the opportunity of a fresh start. You and your family went through a very difficult time and yet, everyone pulled together and now it's time for all of you to share in the benefits of what all of you fought for...your family, marriage, etc.
It is rather odd how family tends to pretend that nothing ever happened and the old "sweep it under the carpet" still takes place in families. It's a shame that people cannot face what took place and learn from it the way that you and your family did. However, you came here and shared your life w/all who read your postings and you helped so many during your painful journey.
I want to wish you and your family all of the happiness that life has to offer. All of you have earned it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
