I am sorry you are feeling this way. I think you handled the conversation with your son perfectly, so you should take some comfort in this.
As B mentioned, the pain and sadness that you are feeling will begin to get better IF YOU allow it too. By this I mean, that you feel it, you grievve it and then you let it go. Will it come back...yes it will but each time I think it gets a little better.
As hard as this can be you must try and learn from this - not just for you BUT for your children AND your H.
Sending you cyber hugs ((()))
God Bless Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
