things haven't improved with my D - she's gone to stop at a friends for a week. I've told her it's a good idea and she went off with a smile from me. Now she's complaining that she doesn't have a car (we share one) but i'm not reacting to that. Its a consequence of leaving home - she's being DBed by me. Hopefully when she returns we will get on better.

feeling more positive though - and can and will get D. The best way to describe it is that I feel really sad that my H chose to walk away from our M and that I'm getting D but I'm not unhappy with my life. Does that make sense?

Also decided to try the internet dating thing - anyone got any experience of that?