I would say only move away if that's where the jobs are, but since you are more likely to get a job in the medical field, in Indianapolis, then of course that's where you should be. Perhaps, now is the time to start thinking of doing shift work. I am only trying to think of ways you can see beyond some of the limitations you have set on yourself and your daughter. Look at how much change D has gone through, and she's become stronger for it, I think.
This is just how I see from my point of view, from what you impart to us. There may be things that don't seem important to you, that is unsaid, that may make all the difference. But, we aren't living your life ... only you can do that, and only you can decide what is best for you. We, your virtual friends, can only 'listen' and try and give advice and put a fresh eye on your situation. I bet our advice is often already thought of.
PS 54 is the new 34, IMO.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim