Just try and think of it as her having resigned from the job of W, and this is her payout. It won't be forever. Just hope for 5 years. I, on the hand, will probably have the benefit of my H's hard work until I die. I wish it weren't that way, because I want true freedom, which includes financial freedom (and I will try and get it, but I have to be realistic). We've been married a long time, and he moved me away from a place where I had a good job, and not likely to get any here. There is more stuff involved, but won't bore you with details. Just be glad that you won't have to pay her for the rest of her life.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim