You have a court document to that effect? Who is the custodial parent-or who has physcial custody of your baby?

Taking into consideration what he is doing is called neglect in most places is criminal and can alter custody.

If neglect is to strong of a word, he's a wayward father, and if push came to shove, have a custody determination with professionals, chances are they would determine he's bad news.

Document everything. Wouldn't 50% mean he has the child 50% of the time as well. then do the opposite, he has to take the child 50% of the time. something you may not be comfortable with but to me 50% means equal share of child, let those realities sink in.

again i'm speaking from varied perspectives, 1 being a teacher for over 10 years-experiencing the behavior, and emotional damage to kidos, 2 now 18yr old daughter with horrible divorce


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline