Baby born, separated, WH moving overseas for OW

[Jstar]

Ladies,

Is parenting when about when you want it or conveinient to suit your schedule, you/your being for both mother and father.?

Why are you worried about what you would look like, set some boundaries,.

imagine some time from now and your children understand what mommy and daddy are, they've seen moms and dads out and about, they look at them selves and notice they are different, different is ok as long as it is healthy.

then the wah comes and goes out of the picture with your children, choice is which is better for your children? Let the walk away daddy come in and out of their lives when it suits his fancy? Or do you do what is best for your children?

Piano, lets just say you two were not married, he is married to the other woman, he just wants to pop up in the kidos life, is that good for your child? Only you can answer this but i'm afriad there are times when women unknowingly have the daddys aroudn and excuse harmful behavior from the daddy's to obtain a reconcilation.

The only person Piano you have to be worried about is the innocent child born into teh situation and you being responsible parent doing what is best for that child, not your h, not your family, just your child.