Some confusing things: she asked me to get with the kids and make a list so *we* can go grocery shopping (she usually did that on her way home from work) she asked me if i wanted to go to the movie last night, I said "I guess, I was going to work on getting the last of the equipment sorted out" (then she retracted and asked if it would be ok for her to take them by herself, I said ok, that;s fine.) she commented to the kids that she has wanted to go to church for a long time, and now I'm going every weekend I started helping clean the house, she commented that I never hepled before, why now, I replied "I was busy doing the farm work, but I don't have to do that anymore"
Grocery shopping was enjoyable (being with the kids) but about half way through her mood changed for the worse, like she remembered she was supposed to be unhappy about us being together.
she has been really biting her nails more the last few days (she always has, but this has been worse)
She started discussion with a friend that is a realtor about selling the house instead of her staying in it.
Then she remembers that we need to finish the asset list showing what each of us is taking.
The only comfort in this all was how well I handled the asset list. It was just business, no emotion at all.
