And for some reason I got a feeling in my gut that they will get their own little place soon. Don't know why but it popped in my head. Gotta get the GPS back in the truck. Toying with eBlaster but they don't have to do anything secret so I doubt she uses the laptop much. And I'm not sure I'd want to see whatever she does use it for? Am I being chickenshlt? Should I do it anyway?
CD, Good to hear you are back from vacation, let’s not tear down all the benefits of that downtime, so were gonna go ahead and get your 2X4’s out of the way now…….
You are fabricating this crap in your head and actually contemplating an action based on something you have concocted in your mind. This is nuts, crazy, whacko whatever…..why am I calling you these names?
Because if you get caught by your W at this point that is exactly what she is going to tell everyone that you are acting like and it will further VALIDATE her reasoning for leaving you. You will push her further away.
Listen, Grit just said it to you……You are here for a reason……..You want to save your marriage……you love your wife…….right???? BRAVO……me too. However, proving just how unfaithful she is or how crazy she is acting is not going to get her back, right???
I don’t know what you do, but let’s pretend you’re a lawyer and you are pleading your case to the Supreme Court (also have to pretend you’re here in the states LOL). You have all this evidence, airtight case, no way anyone could possibly argue with you, yes your wife cheated, yes it started long ago, yes she might be doing this, yes she might be doing that………guess what………….. The Supreme Court just ruled in your favor……….YOU WIN…..right????? Wrong…..your wife is still gone…..and at this point it does not matter how many people you convince or who you convince, it is not going to bring her back to you.
More Intel at this point does not help.
It is that plain…………….let that one soak in.
I would send the letter similar to what Grit sent to his MIL, but after that you are done with her too.
Originally Posted By: CD Bear
Interesting you said just that. OM's W and I just went back and forth on this exact same thing.
Next, 2x4…..sorry dude but you are action oriented at this point so we gotta change your actions because they are speaking louder than your words.
STOP COMMUNICATING WITH THE OM’s wife. She has served her purpose there is no other good reason within the context of saving your marriage to be talking with her.
Every time you talk to her it is going to get back to OM and your W and anyone else that is remotely interested……..makes you look crazy……..actually it is crazy…….your not crazy are you????
If your not crazy now you soon will be if you continue to talk to her.
Look I get it, I did the same thing when I contacted the wife of OM#2. It is a sick twisted connection to our wives, you desparately want your wife back in your life so bad that you will continue to talk to the wife of the man that is with your wife. It makes you look desparate …………also makes you feel desparate and it prevents you from detaching from the sitch.
Phase I of Super Spy Sleuth is over………..and you did well, in fact you did it perfectly.
You graduate with Honors, Puppy send him his certificate please.
Time to shut down the operation, give the 007 gadgetry back to Q.
Time for Phase II……..Making CD a better person.
I hate long posts, so I am going to break this up.
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